Grandma Scrotum's Wisdom and Advice - making websites for women

Grandma Scrotum's Guide to Making Adult
Websites for Women

 

Step 5: Finding Content

Finding decent content is a peculiar difficulty faced by 4women webmistresses. Ideally your content should follow the guidelines outlined above. Unfortunately, most content providers shoot pics and movies designed to appeal to men, which means plenty of facials, fellatio and fake tits. The few who are making decent 4women content are well patronised by 4women webmasters, thus reducing the freshness of most of the content out there. Nonetheless, it’s worth ploughing on; the viability of the niche and the need for new content means the market is growing. If you do buy mainstream content, pic and choose the “least worst” i.e. those that look as though they may appeal to women, and follow at least a few of the above rules.

How to define a "gay looking guy"?  Well, for a start, get rid of all those open-bum shots. They're just not attractive. If he's wearing black leather straps or chaps, forget it. Ditto if he's got a moustache that makes him look like he's straight out of the Village People. Ideally, picture the stereotype of a gay man, and that's what you need to get rid of. Add to that some "lying down open legs" shots that look somewhat feminine, and facial expressions that seem to say "hey big boy", as opposed to "hi baby, let me kiss you passionately." Yes, I agree that this is a very subjective comment... but "spot the gay guy" is a very subjective thing. If you want a definite no-no, just remember that two men having sex doesn’t cut it in the world of 4women. Oh yeah, and beware of anything that suggests "twink" - skinny young guys should be labelled "amateur" or not used at all!

A good nude man shot is usually tastefully shot, maybe in black and white, with nicely toned muscles and a pert bottom. A romantic or fantasy setting also helps. And if he's smiling - bingo. Ditto if he looks like he's about to orgasm. Masturbation pics are good, as long as we get to see his face.

Some content providers that cater to women:

Ounique has hundreds of couples and male sets, quite cheap and available through free FTP. This is the ideal content site for 4women webmasters.

There used to be more content providers but they've all closed down

Step 6: Stories, Toys, and "Value Added" Content and Advertising

The erotic story is something of a standard for women's sites, and women tend to be big buyers of erotic fiction paysites. This may be due to the "women are more than visual" element. Stories engage the imagination, and allow for a little more romance or fantasy than your average sex pics provide. 

Write your own, make it sexy, and try and give it some kind of a plot. At the same time, keep it tame. Make your character interesting, and explore sensuality rather than pure sex. On free sites, let your story build up to the moment of sex, and then end it. Once again - we're keeping the surfer aroused but not satisfied. An example of this sort of story can be found at my site The Captive Man.

While women like looking at pictures and video, they're also interested in stimulating their minds. You need to remember this when it comes to "value added" material. While pics are an attraction, extra content helps your site to stand out, and provides more opportunities to display advertisements. On top of this, women haven't been "trained" to like porn, in the same way that men have. Instead, women have been "trained" to flick through women's magazines in search of something interesting. 

"Value added content" ("V.A.C.") helps female surfers overcome any disinclination to "porn" by keeping them interested, and justifying the fact that they are looking at a smut site (the "I only read it for the articles" defence). It's becoming apparent that women like to explore every aspect of a site, and they may see an advertisement for a sponsor a number of times before deciding to visit or buy. V.A.C provides extra opportunities to plug a product.

If you do include V.A.C., keep it to a minimum. Paysites also offer this stuff, and you don't want to outshine your sponsors. One page is plenty, and a short one at that. Your extra content can include things like opinion pieces, short articles (do NOT write more than 400-500 words), jokes, sex news, quizzes, or question and answer advice columns (just make up the questions!). Think of what you find in your average magazine, and adapt it (of course, don't plagiarise anything; make sure it's your own work!).

Women's paysite sponsors are beginning to offer value added content as promotional material. This is the best sort of V.A.C. because it works as an advertisement for the site, letting your surfer know what kind of intelligent extras they'll get for their money. It also saves you the trouble of having to make up your own content.

Another way of "disguising" advertising as V.A.C is to include "Better sex guides" or sex advice tips. There are a number of sponsors currently offering videos and information services, and this is your opportunity to plug them. Women's mags like Cosmo have been selling "better sex advice" for years, so it's easy to get in on the act.

Sex toys and adult videos are the other "value added" way to make money from women's sites. Traditional sex shops have often been intimidating to women, so it's not surprising that they've taken to buying vibrators online with gusto. Most 4women webmasters report a healthy sideline in selling sex toys, via portal shops on their sites. 

Lingerie is a difficult area. While it offers the same anonymity of buying sex toys, the online lingerie buyer does not get the chance to make sure it fits (and a squillion women can tell you their own "One size fits all" disaster story). Thus one needs to be a little more careful with lingerie shops.

Here are some "value added" sponsors

Site Name Program Type
Bedroomsports Sex Toys
Pussy Shaver Personal Shavers Pubic hair electric shavers
AEBN Pay-per-view videos including the Candida Royalle series
All Posters Various posters, including male nudes
Gamelink Sex Toys and Videos
Sex Positions Guide Sex Positions Advice
Intimacy Institute Instructional Videos
Libida Female-friendly books, sex toys, videos
Comstock Films Top Quality indie amateur movies

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What Women Want

Sponsors

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Quick Reference
What sort of Value Added Content is available?
Introduction agencies
Psychic sites, astrology and horoscopes
Sex toys and videos
Advice on sex techniques and positions
Lingerie
Chat services
Books
Herbal Sex Enhancers and "Female Viagra"
Prescription drugs

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